Sex education for most guys at school (that's if you had sex ed) was a bore. Apart from the random erections, you can't honestly remember...

If you're someone who likes casual sex with multiple partners (and since you reading this blog, chances are you are one of us), you've...

I recently had a client, who was having internal worries about having an orgasm, or lack thereof, as a bottom. Paraphrasing, this is part...

5 Ways to Be Fully Present on a Date The more you can be present in the current experience of your date, the more you’ll enjoy yourself....

If You’re Too Busy for Date Night, You’re Too Busy Date nights should be sacred times to honor your relationship. The plain and simple...

Make Time for Date Night 2020 has been a weird year so far. Many of your routines, plans, and even concept of time may have gone out the...

When will life return to normal? Right now there is no clear answer to that question. The uncertainty creates feelings of dread, anxiety,...

Compelling Statistics Why Self-Care Needs To Be A Priority 2020 has pulled the rug out from under our lives in so many unexpected ways....

Consent is a necessary step toward happy, healthy, mutually satisfying sex. It really is. Unfortunately, many people see it as a cold...

Gender is a spectrum, which means that between and outside of the constructs of male and female, there exists an entire range of gender...

While many people have positive feelings towards their partners and lovers, which serve as a major plus for arousal, there are others...

Despite all the progress that’s been made in LGBTQIA communities, bisexuality is still widely misunderstood. Intersex, transgender, and...

In the opening scenes of Shortbus (Director). (2006), after a shot of the Statue of Liberty, the camera moves the viewer across a...

Biological essentialism and social constructionism are two common approaches to exploring the concept of sexuality and desire (Giles,...

Two different films The 40-Year Old Virgin (Apatow, 2005), and Intimacy (Chéreau, 2001), stimulated my deeper thinking about sexual...

An acquaintance (John for the sake of confidentiality) was in Northern Thailand, teaching a train-the-trainer course on understanding...

As this glorious summer starts showing signs that it is fading into autumn, I continue with the examination of my life and reflect back...

In my last posting, I wrote about the deep-seated shame that is in all gay men, and while very few gay men feel the shame, almost all...

As the South African summer starts to merge into our southern hemisphere autumn, and I approach my 65thbirthday, I realize that my heart...

We could all get more out of day-to-day life by learning how to cultivate joy. Here are my five steps that offer for you to develop a...