JJL Therapy Centre Welcomes You

JJL Therapy Centre at a Glance

Here at JJL Therapy Centre, we know that sometimes all it takes to change the world is a little support. I am determined to make an impact in your lives by providing you support to make choices, find your freedom, gain confidence in your choices, and to grow as an LGBTQ+ person.

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I offer my services as a therapist, counsellor, and sexologist in the following fields:

• Life coaching

• Orientation Trauma Support

• Dating & Relationship Counselling

• Individual & Couple Therapy

• Counselling & coaching for Kink Couples

• Pre-marriage Counselling

• Gay Marriage Counselling

• Counselling & Coaching for Polyamorous Families

• Family Counselling

• Gay Grief Counselling

• Gay Ageism Counselling

• Sex & Intimacy Therapy

• Exploring your dynamics in love, sex and intimacy

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Counselling

If you feel like something is missing, you are definitely not alone!

Some gay men experience a strange paradox: out to their families and even at work, there’s still a deep sense of not quite fitting in, constantly second-guessing their own effectiveness.

You may have a lingering dread you will be “found out” to be less capable than you really are.

I call this uneasiness the “imposter syndrome,” and it’s not that uncommon!

Imagine how it would feel: if you had more confidence in your direction – and you could deal with work and relationships with:

Increased clarity, greater ease, enjoying yourself along the way!

Let’s see if we can:

• Create a clear vision for your true goals

• Identify hidden challenges

• Relieve doubts

• Soothe your inner “imposter”

• Calm emotional reactivity, and

• Rekindle your enthusiasm for work, love, and life!

Gay men have made great strides in establishing greater personal freedom, plus civil rights in many areas – and yet, there’s often a lingering sense that something is not quite right.

Through our work together, you can gain the confidence to make the best of your talents, true values and dreams, and I would love to help you lead a more fulfilling and meaningful life!

Coaching

Life Coaching Session

This service is a favorite among many of my clients, as it is often times one of the keys to a happier, healthier life. My job is to give you the tools and techniques to achieve a balanced and fulfilling lifestyle. After several sessions, you will become well-versed at handling issues whenever and wherever they arise. Call now to schedule a session.

Career Coaching Session

Do you feel like you are always adding new tasks to your to-do list but never crossing anything out? My specialization will help guide and inspire you to achieve more of your personal and professional goals. Get in touch today and start taking control of your life with my coaching tools and techniques.

Relationship Coaching Session

Life throws many surprises at us, and while we cannot predict the outcome of any situation, we can take control of how we respond to certain situations. With my coaching sessions, you’ll learn about acceptance and how to exert your power of choice over whatever life may throw at you.

“Happiness, not in another place but this place, not for another hour but this hour”

Walt Whitman

Sexology

Screw Making Excuses for your Sexuality
Too many people are living someone else’s’ dream. They live in the shadow of someone else’s ridiculous sexual expectations. Pretend to be someone they’re sexual not. They hold themselves back from sexual adventure, enjoyment and pleasure, and so they never do the thing(s) they most want to do in life. I call bullshit on that type of living, because it’s not living!
I help people break out of these molds and help them to live their truth, be authentic, and love it! I teach them how to escape the closets of their life, empower them to disrupt the status quo, and inspire them to make their bold move to live life with excuses and apologies!
Dr. James Lizamore is a leading expert on sex and relationships. He specializes in Out-of-Control Sexual Behaviours (OCSB), Relationship Problems and Marital Conflict, Sex Therapy, and Sexual Identity Concerns, Sexual Depression, Anxiety and Post Traumatic Stress Disorder. His practice I located in the Northern Suburbs of Cape Town but he welcomes clients from all over the Western Cape and is also available for long-distance coaching and consultation.
This practice specializes in sex therapy and sexual identity issues, including responsible non-monogamy/polyamorous relationships, childhood sexual, physical and emotional abuse; mixed-orientation marriages, coming out; and sexual/relational depression and anxiety. Dr. Lizamore works with groups, families, couples and singles and all services are for people of any sexual orientation.